:sigh: the sad thing is, she and I have had that conversation, 'cause our minds are as bent as our fandom hahahaha.

I only asked her because I was reading ewinfic Twenty Minutes and I was trying to get a relative handle on how a best friend would react to a, as you say, 'hand job or die' situation ... while grocery shopping. haha

woooo! i have no sense of propriety! Plus, 15 years of friendship means no topic is too awkward. ::thumbs up::