Kirk/Spock romance as a practice run for Uhura

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Hello,

I appear to have lost a story I read fairly recently, it was set mostly post movie but involved events during the academy. Uhura tries to tell Jim that he should be nicer to Spock, but poor Kirk holds resentment because during the Academy Gary Mitchell told Spock to use Jim for "lessons" on how to date a human while Jim thought it was an actual relationship.

I've left out some plot I'm sure, but any help would be greatly appreciated!

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[tasmin-dvelnahr.livejournal.com]

I am looking for these three fics, any help would be appreciated :)

1.  In this AU, Sarek is a warlord of sorts, Kirk is serving under Pike, they are planet-side somewhere and Spock arrives to the camp they are in, if I remember correctly he is there to take a bondmate.

I know it isn't a lot to go on, but any help would be appreciated

2.  This is an XI story, where Kirk is on New Vulcan, some sort of diplomatic mission and a bunch of Vulcans appreciate Kirk's 'dynamic mind', requesting to meld with him- they of course are getting off on it, but Kirk doesn't realize this, doesn't feel taken advantage of, but Spock stumbles onto this and is jealous and overprotective.  

3.  This one is an AU of some sort, Kirk ends up having to kill Spock Prime, even though Prime had taken him in after some sort of injury because when Prime finally completely melds with Kirk, Kirk finds outs that Prime is the one responsible for the destruction of Vulcan-  Nero did it, but Spock allowed it.

If any of those sound familiar, again, I would greatly appreciate any assistance.  Thanks :)